| Location | Winchester |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 12/12/2008 |
| Date of Death | 12/12/2008 |
| Visitors | 5,360 since 22/12/2008 |
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★ Tyler John Murray Smith ★
★ Born Asleep 12-12-2008 ★
♥ We Love You Loads Lil Man ♥
Sorry pictures removed due to a few fakes appearing on sands and dont feel safe having his pictures up atm x
To my lil baby boy tyler, you were so precious to me, the day i found out i was pregnant with you, mummy n daddy were so happy, who took u away from us? What happened? I wish i could find out all these answers but i will never know til the day we meet in heaven. Theres never a day that goes by where i think of you and wish for you to be here in my arms :(.
We only had 6 little weeks left until you were due.
Me and daddy are so proud of you lil man, you were so gorgeous, and we got to look after you for 2 precious days.
I was so proud when i gave birth to you, i got to do something for you, you were so little and beautiful, 4lbs 4 and half ozs and 49cm long. Daddy washed and dressed you as i was worried i would hurt you as you were so fragile, i enjoyed my cuddles from you i didnt want to put you down. Youve made your grandparents so proud.
The day we had to say goodbye was the hardest, we didnt want to let you go, we wanted 2 take you home and look after you forever, but we know that people up in heaven will look after you, espicially auntie michelle, great papa jim, and great papa david, please take care our lil man.
We love you lil man, your always be remembered and in our hearts. LOVE YOU TYLER xXxXxXx
★ Tylers Story ★
The day you was taken away from us, we just couldnt understand how and why, you were active that same day, kicking and moving normally. I was a bit poorly the day before, but i thought it was just a bit of sickness, and if it wasnt for daddy getting me to go to hospital the next day because i had a little bit of backache, then we wouldnt of known what had happened. When we got to the hospital we got put into a room for an hour before getting seen and checked because the midwife was in a stress because mummy couldnt produce a wee sample and i had only come up because of my backache, when she felt my tummy it hurt, sent sharp pains down my sides, that worried me, and then when she put the belt on my tummy and couldnt pick up your heartbeat, me and daddy knew instantly what had happened, she disappeared and brung in a doctor with a scan and there you was on the screen, no heartbeat, i jumped off the bed, crying, ran into daddys arms. Daddy rung nanny and granddad, they came straight away.
We got sent home and told to come back the next morning to talk about giving birth to you. Next morning we turnt up at 7:30am and they decided they would induce me the next day, so we stayed in hospital and when the day came, they put 2 tablets in me and then another 4 every 6 hours. I was getting little contractions but it wasnt until the friday morning they broke my waters at 3cm dialated at 11:00am, by 12:30pm was when i started pushing, i was having pethadine, morphine and gas&air. 44 minutes later at 13:14, you were bought into the world. It was a silent and very sad moment, the midwife was even crying. Daddy cut your cord and the midwife wrapped you up and put you in your little bed. Half an hour later i delivered the placenta, and then the family came in to see you, you were so perfect little man. We got to look after you for 2 days, got to cuddle you, dress you and have you to ourselves. Just wish it never had to be this way lil man. Take care sweetheart and see you soon xXx
★ The Funeral ★
I hope on Tuesday 30th December 2008 mummy and daddy rest you at peace the way you like it, we wish we never had to do this lil man, its breaking our hearts each day we miss you more and more, atleast when your at rest we know where you are, and that your at peace. Love u xxxxxx
We've now had the funeral lil man, it was the most beautiful service, i am so proud it all went the way mummy and daddy wanted it 2. It was so upsetting, to turn up and see your little coffin in the car. Daddy was so strong, he carried you up to your grave and placed you down, everybody loved the poem we chose for you. Daddy lowered you down into the ground, it upset him so much. You had so much family and friends there to say thier goodbyes, scatter petals onto your coffin, so many flowers, your so loved tyler. Everyone wore something blue for you lil man. Atleast i know where you are now hunny, mummy and daddy will always be up to see you and check on you.
★ Your P/M Results ★
We had Tylers p/m meeting on 3rd February 2009 which came back with no reason on what had happened.
It slowly started kicking in that they had no answer, but i still couldnt take the fact my lil man died for no reason.
A few months later i recieved a letter from my consultant explaining they had more results back and it turns out that my poor lil man died from an umbilical cord accident, the cord was wrapped around his neck 3 times, apparently pretty tight cutting off his oxygen supply and he died pretty suddenly.
I was shocked to get these results but in a way its a relief to know what happened to my little boy and that it was an accident and in my next pregnancy they will know what to keep an eye out for.
I just wish they done the special scan on me when pregnant with Tyler on the cord so they may of been able to do something sooner.
I'm so sorry lil man that mummy couldnt keep you safe, its not your fault you were so active.
Love you forever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
★♥ Here's the poem that was read out at your funeral ♥★
Fly, fly, little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove,
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again.
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace for evermore
Fly, fly do not fear,
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free.
Be on your way, don't wait for me,
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time.
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But we won't forget
Fly, fly little wing,
Fly where only angels sing.
Flyaway, the time is right,
Goodnight, my darling baby Tyler.
Go now, find the light.
★♥ Sleep tight lil man xXxXxXx ♥★
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TYLER
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Tyler
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TYLER
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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BIG HUGS TYLER
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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Belanger hugs and XXXX ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ bye for now good ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰
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A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play jump rope
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
We’ll have our cake and ice cream
And open gifts - SURPRISE!
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel XX
With Love As Always xxx
Love to you & your family
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Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
With Love As Always xxx
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